She Likes You Even After Rejecting You
REJECTING YOUR ADVANCES IS NOT ALWAYS WHAT IT APPEARS
Not all rejecting reactions are the same. Most of the time, when as the girl holds her hand in your face when you approach her in the bar it’s a sign that she is uninterested. However, there are other situations where a girl may turn you down ‘for the meantime’, but would be willing to reconsider at a later date. The not-so-good news is that it takes a lot of skill and experience to differentiate between the two. The good news is that it does not take a genius and, if you can get her contact number, you will at least have a chance to get another crack at it. Read more
Due to my travels and work, my social awareness has become, over time, highly tuned, so I could tell almost by a sixth sense when a woman is interested in me even after she turns me down. One of the times I was rejected, a woman revealed her interest in the gentle way in which she told me to ‘have a good night’ at the club I visited. While it was certainly a brush off, her tone of voice intimated on a barely discernible level that she was slightly regretful at the same time. She gave me her social details before leaving.
With that being said, if you have a close miss with a girl who you believe may be interested were it not for circumstances (in a relationship, exams, timezone difference or whatever…) then by all means keep hitting her up on social media from time-to-time and trying your luck. You have nothing to lose and it could pay off big time.
My pro-tip in this scenario is to ensure that your messages remain humorous, sexy and short. Do not fall into the trap sending messages that are basic-tier when asking her about how she is doing, what’s happening with you, etc… Be spicy. Your objective should be: to remain on her mind as a fun and exciting option for casual dates and sex so that when the right opportunity presents itself (dumped by boyfriend, visits your city for a business trip, feeling lonely, etc.), you will be the one she contacts first… (End of PART 1)
Article By: runman