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Jul 30, 2023
Don’t Get Frustrated If She Plays “Hard To Get.” So let’s say you meet a cute Asian girl and you get her phone number and want to know hot o keep her attention. You contract her to see her again, but she won’t commit to any plans. She tells you she’s really “busy” this week. Or, she’s impossible to get ahold of. Which is weird…because she seemed happy to meet you, and was more than willing to give you her phone number. So what’s her deal?
This happens a lot with Asian women. And you must see their behavior for what it is: a test to see if you have the know-how to keep her attention. She may be wondering if you’re only looking to get laid. If you text her once, and she doesn’t reply, are you going to forget about her and move on to another prospect? A lot of Asian women think that Western guys are only interested in sex, and they want to know if your interest in knowing them is genuine.
Two rules on this:
1 – When you text or call her for the first time, don’t try to make plans with her right then. Tell her it was nice to meet her, ask her what she’s up to, wish her a nice day, and leave it at that (for now).
2 – If she’s a young Asian woman (under the age of 30), you should text her rather than call. They are more comfortable with this mode of communication. If you call her, there’s a chance you will catch her at a bad time and she won’t be able to talk or she’s in a noisy environment, etc. This might teach you how to catch the wrong kind of attention from her. By texting her, you give her the chance to reply to you when she is comfortable doing so.
If she’s interested in you, you can expect to receive a text reply very soon. Probably within a couple of minutes. Their phones are always within reach.